We all try to get some amount of "control" over what happens to us, but there are so many variables which we have no control over, that it is really pretty amazing that we can keep from going crazy.
If you think back, you probably ended up where you are today because of many random events happening in your life. It's nice to think that we have made every decision, but most decisions have to be made once some unplanned things happen, or when a planned thing doesn't happen.
Now this is no big surprise, just an observation over many years. It's those subsequent decisions we made that put us on the paths that lead to our present condition.
Lots of people like to make New Years Resolutions. I resolved awhile back to avoid making them, because a resolution is really just a decision you can make at any time. An arbitrary date doesn't help much. What really makes a difference is the intent and commitment behind your decisions.
If you have problems with a bad habit or want to start a good habit, all it really takes is a conscious and clear decision. You may need to write it down and review it for several days, but any habit can be changed or made by changing behavior and making it part of your daily routine.
Don't be surprised if you slip once in awhile. Nobody's perfect, especially ME. But don't be too hard on yourself. Just recommit to your decision, and the chance of slipping again will become much smaller.
Now why am I talking about this? I've made lots of decisions and changes in my life. I feel that even though I have made lots of mistakes and bad choices, I have usually been able to overcome them by making some better choices.
You can be happy with your lot in life, no matter what it is, if you DECIDE to be happy. Never give up.
-Gil
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